I've come to a conclusions about an issue set into motion by recent events here. It's all about understanding and how men and women just don't seem to have a clue to understanding the other's psyche. I think I've finally figured it out from a woman's perspective.
It's no surprise that men and women think quite differently. In fact, it should be expected.
I was wondering about why men seem to have such difficulty knowing about the ways that women react and how they think. Some may say that it's because women deal with things on a wholly emotional and that men are more pragmatic. This may be true.
What about the role of hormones on both of these groups?
Women are often characterized as being at the mercy of their hormones and that could possibly be true. However, I think it is the differences in the balance of these hormones between men and women that create the inability to "see" things in the same way. Neither of these groups can truly understand each other entirely because we have different "concoctions" of hormones. This can undoubtedly lead to misunderstandings.
Do hormones contribute to women's intuition? I am betting they do. They also affect women in a very competitive way thus creating ways to beguile the opposite sex into the whole mating process. In a way, it's all about reproduction and the need to do that.
This is why men have trouble understanding the way that women think. And vice versa. Until we can "walk a mile in each other's shoes", we will not be able to understand the other. So, when the pragmatic men of the world are unable to see the manipulation by the female of the species, it should not be of surprise to the women that they would be unable to identify with our thought processes.
The same with the reverse situation. Women will not understand what they perceive as men who are "obsessed" with sex.
It's best just to agree to disagree and not spend our lives trying to decode the language and thought of the opposite sex. Then we will be able to focus on what is truly important.
Any thoughts on this? Don't be afraid. Leave a comment...
It's no surprise that men and women think quite differently. In fact, it should be expected.
I was wondering about why men seem to have such difficulty knowing about the ways that women react and how they think. Some may say that it's because women deal with things on a wholly emotional and that men are more pragmatic. This may be true.
What about the role of hormones on both of these groups?
Women are often characterized as being at the mercy of their hormones and that could possibly be true. However, I think it is the differences in the balance of these hormones between men and women that create the inability to "see" things in the same way. Neither of these groups can truly understand each other entirely because we have different "concoctions" of hormones. This can undoubtedly lead to misunderstandings.
Do hormones contribute to women's intuition? I am betting they do. They also affect women in a very competitive way thus creating ways to beguile the opposite sex into the whole mating process. In a way, it's all about reproduction and the need to do that.
This is why men have trouble understanding the way that women think. And vice versa. Until we can "walk a mile in each other's shoes", we will not be able to understand the other. So, when the pragmatic men of the world are unable to see the manipulation by the female of the species, it should not be of surprise to the women that they would be unable to identify with our thought processes.
The same with the reverse situation. Women will not understand what they perceive as men who are "obsessed" with sex.
It's best just to agree to disagree and not spend our lives trying to decode the language and thought of the opposite sex. Then we will be able to focus on what is truly important.
Any thoughts on this? Don't be afraid. Leave a comment...
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